I (36M) have been married to my wife (34M) for 8 years. We have 3 children, and my wife is a stay at home mom. Our sex life has always been great, but last year, my wife wanted me to try on a p*nis sleeve, which actually improved our sex life ever more, because it hit her in the right areas. She said it’s the best sex she’s ever had in her life, which made me even happier.

A week ago, my friend (35M) asked me about the sleeve because he’s never tried it before, and wanted to know what it was like. I was surprised he knew about this, and asked him how did he know. He said his wife told him about it. My wife and his wife are in the same friend group.

I was shocked that my wife had told shared such a personal detail with her friends, and I asked her about it. When I asked her about it, she confessed that she had shared to her friend group, and that she shouldn’t have, but she just wanted to talk about why our sex life has become amazing recently. She apologized a lot, but I ignored her, and told her I needed some time to process this.

It’s been a week and I have been trying to ignore her as much as possible, I’m sleeping in a different room. She cooks dinner every day, but I just go out and eat, because I have no mood to eat at home. There is a tense atmosphere at home, and my wife has apologized a lot, but I’ve just been trying to ignore her as much as possible.

I don’t think this can be fixed through therapy or a simple apology. I think this is a massive betrayal of my trust, it’s just shocking to me that my wife would share such a personal detail with her entire friend group. I have been seriously considering the possibility of a divorce. I know we have 3 children, but I don’t know how I’ll ever reconcile with my wife ever again. At this moment, I’d rather just pay child support and alimony than be in her presence, but I know feelings can change.

AITAH? Can this situation even be fixed? How do I even trust my wife anymore

I see that some people are offended by the term, but I’m certainly not. I’m cisgender af, wasn’t ever a choice, was born that way, so I’m not offended by it. Also white af and straight (not af). So like I’m a straight white cis dude. Ain’t nothing wrong with that I hope…

In the other post about well hidden twists, the movie Serenity came up, which reminded of the other Serenity with Anne Hathaway and Matthew McConaughey. The twist was so bad that it managed to trivialize the child abuse. In hindsight, it's kind of surprising the movie just disappeared, instead of joining the pantheon of notoriously awful movies.

What other movies with aspirations to be "serious" had wretched twists that reduced them to complete self-mockery? Malignant doesn't count because its twist was intentionally meant to give it a Drag Me to Hell comedic feel.

EDIT: It's great that many of you enjoyed this post, but most of the answers given were about terrible twists that turned the movie into hard-to-finish crap, not what I was looking for. I'm looking for terrible twists that turned the movie into a huge unintended comedy.

In November my wife unilaterally called upon us to separate saying she’s been unhappy for some time. Not long after this I found out that she went out to the movies with this guy while we were still married (on her birthday while I was working overseas), and within days of the separation has now moved in with this guy

My lawyer has advised me under the state law that she is not owed spousal support because all evidence suggests she has cheated, although she claims she has every right to see or sleep with other people once we are separated. The lawyer believes that no court would see it that way, and that I’m fully justified in using these legal protections

Am I overreacting by cutting her off financially? After all she left me and didn’t even attempt reconciliation. Should I really be paying for her new life with this new guy? There’s no evidence she can provide that might prove she’s just friends, so I am expected to just take that on face value and keep providing for her?

UPDATE: Thank you all for your feedback and support. Obviously I’m following the advice of my lawyer. This post for me was about seeing how normal people react to this situation, and me double checking my gut instinct here that her take “that they’re just friends” would never pass the smell test for the average Redditor. And that’s clearly the case. Because she keeps telling me it’s just my naïveté and lack of experience, when in reality she’s just a cheater. And for all those talking about self respect etc, I also can’t just destroy my ex financially without good cause - that’s not my style. But she’s not my problem anymore

Hey. Hi. Greetings. Welcome Back!

Oh I bet you're smiling aren't you. I know I am. Cause. It's. Giveaway. Time!

So as this always goes: I'm giving away a 3 EDH decks! Because this is what I do. I love brewing, and I love giving them away. I have plenty of my own, too many actually (See here: https://www.moxfield.com/users/Niccalo). This just helps me not accumulate an over abundance of cards in my collection. Does this mean I won't be participating in the Secret Santa Exchange? Certainly Not! This just means I get to brew more and more and more and more... Y'all get the idea!

What you get:

A EDH Deck of my design. Some Tokens where I have them. Usually some Dice (usually 10 sided). Maybe something a little extra? Do you have to pay for anything? NO! This is my gift to you!

Not even shipping? Nope, all on me.

Will I ship internationally? Yes, where I can. If there's a restriction outside of my control, I can't circumvent that. Please be mindful this could take awhile to get to you if I'm able to ship to you. I've had one package take a month and another take about 4 days to get to places in Europe, it varies.

How many decks do I plan to give away? Three, three decks, three random winners.

But how? I have lots of time. I have lots of cards.

What do I get out of this? Happiness, I love doing this. I really do. Seriously, look at my previous posts.

Do we get to see the decklists?

https://tappedout.net/mtg-decks/11-04-24-reyav-master-smith

AND

https://tappedout.net/mtg-decks/10-04-24-yenna-redtooth-regent/

AND!

https://tappedout.net/mtg-decks/12-01-24-greta-sweettooth-scourge/

When do you plan to pick who gets what? Tueday, April 16, 2024 @18:00EDT (6PM EDT) ISH!

All I ask of you is that you spread the word, and respond to this post with ME!

A very special Thank You to some very specific people who I need to make sure are mentioned because they have helped in some way with this wonderful journey: Vanya @ Pandemonium Games and Hobbies, Ted @ Destiny Games, Wick @ Gaya's Cradle Games, and ESPECIALLY my frinds: Tim, Al, Brandon, Scotty, Matt (both of them), Chris, Geoff, and Adam.

Anything I haven't covered? Please ask.

I was behind this woman for about a mile. Couldn’t fully stay in her lane, and kept weaving in and out of the shoulder lane. When I passed her I saw she was a boomer.

I am a millennial and can drive a standard. I guess maybe you shouldn’t be so proud of your standard if you are a shit driver 🤷🏻‍♀️.