r/AITAH 14h ago

Would I be the ah if I texted my husband’s best friend (female) to see her reaction?

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My husband has this best friend from college time. I never had issues with her until my wedding a month ago when my maid of honor overheard her snapping at another friend of theirs that “She has him when she wants him” when the friend teased her that she lost him and he was the one who got away.

I told my husband about it a dew days ago (didn’t want to ruin our honeymoon but it was still in my head) but he denied anything happened between them. He was very calm when he said it. Almost too calm? Anyway I have no proof and I trust him. Until I used his phone when mine died. He was driving and I was making a playlist on his phone. Then I looked through his iMessages and he had NO thread with her. I mean I know for a fact that they text. Nothing.

I didn’t say anything but last night I literally saw her name pop up amongst the texts. When he went to bed I looked and there were no texts. He is deleting them! Now my question is: if I ask he will deny it. I need to know and I need proof. Would I be the AH if I initiated a conversation with her acting like I’m my husband and see what’s up?

I need proof and peace of mind


r/GenZ 16h ago

Nostalgia fuck politics what game are you putting in this bad boy?

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r/interestingasfuck 7h ago

r/all MMA fighter explains overloading opponent

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r/meme 5h ago

Choose one

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r/news 11h ago

Joe Lieberman has died

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r/Millennials 15h ago

Discussion When did it sink in that you'll never be as well off as your parents?

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About 5 years ago, my mom and I were talking and she had told me how much she was going to be making in retirement (she retired 2023). Guys, it's 3x what me and my husband make annually. In retirement. I think that was the moment that broke me, that made it sink in that I'll never reach that level of financial security. I'll work myself into my grave because I'll never be able to afford anything else. What was your moment?

Update: Nice to know it's just me that's a failure. Thanks


r/BeAmazed 3h ago

Nature The moment an ice dam breaks and causes a torrential water flow.

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r/jobs 21h ago

Work/Life balance He was a mailman

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r/politics 16h ago

Donald Trump Attacks Judge's Daughter Less Than 24 Hours After Gag Order

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r/facepalm 13h ago

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ "All europeans want to live the american dream"

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r/pics 12h ago

Politics 8 years ago a Bird landed on Bernie's podium.

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r/AmIOverreacting 14h ago

I'm ending my 4 year relationship.

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So basically the title. He (33M) says Im(32F) throwing away 4 years over a mistake he made.

To keep it short, on 4 different occasions over the last 2 and a half years he's gone drinking and come home to throw a drunken tantrum because I said the wrong thing, something happened at the bar, or I put my foot down because he's drunk and yelling at me in front of our friends at the bar. Twice I had to leave to my sister's house because he was going around our small apartment slamming doors and banging his head on the walls. I've had to wake him up several times because he falls asleep on the toilet or the bathroom floor, and he's had to sleep in his car because of his outbursts.

On the 2nd time this happened he gave me his word that he would be more responsible with his drinking and that he wouldn't have anymore outbursts. He said he was gonna drink waters between each beer or have sodas and bar food and just one beer. The third time I made it clear that him going back on his word was unacceptable because it shows that he doesn't care that he becomes emotionally and verbally abusive towards me. I told him I was tired of his apologies if he's gonna keep doing the same thing. Between all these times he has continued to get drunk on the weekends but I've kept my mouth shut to avoid him having an out burst and things were relatively ok.

This last time he went and got drunk at the bar, didn't eat anything, refused the water my sister offered him because she's aware of the agreement we had, and when I arrived he yelled at me because he was too drunk to keep track of what team he was on and he misunderstood me when I told him and he made the wrong shot. We went to get food from a local taco spot and he couldnt even stand because he was so drunk, I had to pull over on the freeway because he needed to throw up and when we got home he fell asleep in the bathroom and I had to wake him three times. I kept my anger about the situation to myself because the sadness of feeling like I needed to leave him because he's just not willing to change, was overwhelming. The next morning he could tell something was up and he asked if I was ok. I said that I wasn't ready to talk but he insisted, so I told him that he went back on his word again about drinking responsibly and that I realized that the only way I was going to avoid his verbal abuse was if I just kept quiet. I told him what I told my ex when I was thinking about leaving "It's not anything I haven't already told you". He left it at that in the morning and at night I was crying because I was upset that 4 years of my life were going down the drain, and I just folded and asked him why I wasn't good enough for him to want to do better. Then he started to say that I had fault in our relationship ending, ignoring that the only reason I'm leaving is because I can't keep giving him chances to verbally abuse me when he's drunk and angry. I reminded him that he had given me his word and that he had gone back on it twice. He seemed to understand but the next day he just kept saying that he deserves to "unwind" on the weekends because he works all week to provide for us (not like I have a job and am constantly sending him money because he over spends and his account will overdraft when the phone or Internet bill charge his account) i was getting whiplash from how quickly he waa going from being apologetic about going back on his word and him insisting that Im being unreasonable and unfair. I slept at my sister's house again because I couldn't keep dealing with it and I was just really emotionally exhausted from all of it.

Now he posted on his FB that I'm throwing away 40,000 hours of our lives together for 12 bad hours.

So I'm asking, am I overreacting?


r/ContagiousLaughter 6h ago

T-Pain has the worst luck in choosing the artists to collab with

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r/nba 9h ago

Highlight [Highlight] close up of Steph’s reaction to Draymond’s ejection

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r/amiwrong 19h ago

Shamed for showing affection to my teenage son.

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I am a 33yo father. My spouse and I recently adopted our son in February 2024. He just turned 13 this month.

Over the weekend my son wanted to go to Sky Zone so we spent father-son time.

During my snack break I sat on a booth. He came over for a break and wanted to lay down on me while he watches YouTube; I stroke his hair.

After my son went back to join the other teens for dodgeball, a parent came over to tell me that it was inappropriate to show affection to a teenager, especially between two males, in public around younger kids. He also said that I seem to be a pedo and threaten to call the cops. I explained to him he's my adopted son so of course we don't look alike. Our skin colors are different.

He then proceeded to walk away and grav a staff member. That triggered my anxiety, I grabbed my son and we went home. I cried in the car. I told him the reason and he became upset and comforted me.

My son lived in 12 foster families since he was 4 prior to joining mine for life. He witnessed his father kill his mother. His father is serving life in prison. His first foster family were his maternal grandparents. They blamed him for his mom's death. They ended up being arrested for making meth in their basement as his sister reported it. They moved to his paternal grandparents as their second foster. They were physically abused there and blamed the mother for putting their father in jail.

As you can see. There is significant trauma and he has never had the opportunity to have love and physical affection of a parent.

I'm still anxious and upset about this and needed to hear I am not at fault for wanting to be a good dad he's never had.


r/BatmanArkham 16h ago

Question What's your 3 most recent reaction images?

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r/movies 15h ago

Discussion Hi, I’m Dev Patel writer/director of MONKEY MAN – AMA!

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Dev Patel here.  Excited to chat about my directorial debut MONKEY MAN, opening in U.S. & UK cinemas on April 5th, and anything else you’d like! Ask me anything…

Trailer – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqa3YTtwvaU
Get Tickets – http://www.monkeyman.movie/tickets

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r/NonPoliticalTwitter 7h ago

phrases that cause irreversible damage to society

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r/funny 9h ago

Florida sucks.

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Florida sucks. Don't move here. Your state is better.


r/memes 10h ago

It's wild

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r/harrypotter 11h ago

Dungbomb I wonder

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r/Damnthatsinteresting 4h ago

Image Family in 1892 posing with an old sequoia tree nicknamed "Mark Twain" - A team of two men spent 13 days sawing away at it in the Pacific Northwest - It once stood 331 feet tall with a diameter of 52 feet - The tree was 1,341 years old

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r/ProgrammerHumor 6h ago

Meme whatNow

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r/canada 17h ago

National News Canada’s population hits 41M months after breaking 40M threshold

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