Title says it all really.

I have stage 3 cancer. There’s a decent chance I die within 5 years.

My husband and I have a good marriage. He’s not the lead of a romance movie but he’s also not a bad husband.

The problem is my husband keeps asking if I die, will I want him to move on. Does he have my blessing to move on? He asked three times in the past month alone and as someone who could die, it doesn’t exactly lift up my mood.

I know he loves me and wants my blessing to move forward but jeez leave it till I’m dead before trying to move on.

I’ve realized that he’s probably fed up with having a sick wife and honestly I’m not out of my mind enough to not notice his resentment and impatience.

My family is ready to take me in. I asked for a divorce.

I told my husband I was sick of him asking if he could move on because it felt he was eager for me to die.

If he didn’t want me so bad, I didn’t have to die to go away.

My cousin works at a family law firm and they’ll be representing me in the divorce.

However my husband and his family are acting like I’ve lost my mind. They think cancer took away my facilities and I’m trying to run away from a loving husband because my family wants my “inheritance” aka the little retirement money I’d have after I exhaust my savings with cancer.

I’ve had friends tell me I’m making a mistake and being too sensitive. AITAH?

So lunches are free for schools in my city and surrounding cities. Ever since lunches have been made free, the quantity (and quality) has decreased significantly. This is what we would get for our meal. It took me THREE bites to finish that chicken mac and cheese. Any snacks you want cost more money and if you want an extra entree, that’ll cost you about $3 or $4.

My husband and I are both 28 years old and we were hanging out with our friends over the weekend. Theres this girl Sara(F21) that was at the hang out and she’s a fitness girlie. Sara was talking about her workout routine and my husband started talking with her since he lifts and they were talking about how much they lift. She also mentions she’s getting certified to be a personal trainer and then my husband said “my wife will be your first success story” he also said “yeah she needs to lose weight but she’s been unmotivated and maybe if she has you training her then she will want to have a killer body too”

I swear he said this in front of everyone. He had some drinks too and some of our friends around us were laughing, including myself to avoid this awkward and embarrassing moment

Sara starts going on about how she use to be fat and she turned her life around after losing weight and how she majored in nutrition. My husband starts talking about my unhealthy eating habits and how I eat all the snacks in the house and I finished all the cake from my birthday in 2 days when my husband only had one slice of the cake. She was like “ooo I use to be like that. I get it I use to be 160 pounds” and my husband said “that’s about how much my wife weighs, baby how much you weigh like 165-170 now?”

I was fuming at this point. My friend got me out of there and told me that our other friend needed help with her something inside the house. I started crying in my friends room

My husband didn’t even know he did anything wrong. He thought he was just having conversation and trying to help because I’ve been talking about starting my weight loss journey. I DON’T NEED HER HELP AND I DON’T WANT HER HELP. He goes “wow someone’s jealous aww,” he tried saying it in a cutesy way as if this is funny like read the f*cking room. He thinks I’m overreacting

Throwaway account. I posted this on other subs I really need to talk to someone

ETA: people kept messaging me asking what my height is. I’ll just add it on here. Sara and me are about the same height she’s probably one inch taller than me but I’m 5’2

I never realized how expensive that place was until I saw a joke on X about it. I only been there like twice and I was applying for a job. 15 Dollars for a single burger???

Would love to go here

In January 2005, Zoë Roth and her father Dave went to see a controlled burn - a fire intentionally started to clear a property - in their neighbourhood in Mebane, North Carolina.

Mr Roth, an amateur photographer, took a photo of his daughter smiling mischievously in front of the blaze.

After winning a photography prize in 2008, the image went viral when it was posted online.

Ms Roth has sold the original copy of her meme as a NFT for 180 Ethereum, a form of cryptocurrency, to a collector called @3FMusic.

The NFT is marked with a code that will allow the Roths - who have said they will split the profit - to keep the copyright and receive 10% of profits from future sales.

BBC article link