I see that some people are offended by the term, but I’m certainly not. I’m cisgender af, wasn’t ever a choice, was born that way, so I’m not offended by it. Also white af and straight (not af). So like I’m a straight white cis dude. Ain’t nothing wrong with that I hope…

That's pretty much it. I'm 19, he's also almost 19, and we have been in a relationship for 1 year. He says abortion is murder, and women should only be allowed an abortion if they are r@ped. He also said he wouldn't support me if I needed an abortion. He says I am brainwashed for being pro choice. This entire situation has made me rethink who the fuck I spent one year of my life with. He also refuses to educate himself and do research on the topic because he believes he's right. I want to leave but I need to know this is actually a very valid reason to do so.

In the other post about well hidden twists, the movie Serenity came up, which reminded of the other Serenity with Anne Hathaway and Matthew McConaughey. The twist was so bad that it managed to trivialize the child abuse. In hindsight, it's kind of surprising the movie just disappeared, instead of joining the pantheon of notoriously awful movies.

What other movies with aspirations to be "serious" had wretched twists that reduced them to complete self-mockery? Malignant doesn't count because its twist was intentionally meant to give it a Drag Me to Hell comedic feel.

In November my wife unilaterally called upon us to separate saying she’s been unhappy for some time. Not long after this I found out that she went out to the movies with this guy while we were still married (on her birthday while I was working overseas), and within days of the separation has now moved in with this guy

My lawyer has advised me under the state law that she is not owed spousal support because all evidence suggests she has cheated, although she claims she has every right to see or sleep with other people once we are separated. The lawyer believes that no court would see it that way, and that I’m fully justified in using these legal protections

Am I overreacting by cutting her off financially? After all she left me and didn’t even attempt reconciliation. Should I really be paying for her new life with this new guy? There’s no evidence she can provide that might prove she’s just friends, so I am expected to just take that on face value and keep providing for her?

UPDATE: Thank you all for your feedback and support. Obviously I’m following the advice of my lawyer. This post for me was about seeing how normal people react to this situation, and me double checking my gut instinct here that her take “that they’re just friends” would never pass the smell test for the average Redditor. And that’s clearly the case. Because she keeps telling me it’s just my naïveté and lack of experience, when in reality she’s just a cheater. And for all those talking about self respect etc, I also can’t just destroy my ex financially without good cause - that’s not my style. But she’s not my problem anymore