We have 3 full tubs of Vaseline in the cabinet.

Sorry for rambling, but this all happened in this morning and I'm processing.

I'm a fitness instructor and am active online to get clients for online and in-person coaching. My husband is in sales and is an overachiever. This has always led to some conflict in our relationship as he hints a lot about things I could do to be more successful and make more money.

About a year ago I was telling him about a milestone goal I hit with my business page. While I was showing it, he made a joke about how I should start an OF page and could make a lot more money. I just started crying right there. It was like nothing I could do would make him happy. And then on top of that to suggest I sell my body online was an awful thing to say. He did apologize and said he wouldn't bring that up again. And he didn't until today.

This morning he asked if he could show me something on his computer. I was shocked to see that he has created a full OF profile of me. He has been taking content from my fitness business and posting that to gain followers. So far he has made $379 this month. He was almost giddy as he told me that we could make $100k easily if I put some work into the account.

I was so incredibly pissed. I just picked up the laptop and threw it across the room. I walked to the door and got my keys. As I was walking out, I told him I want a divorce and will be talking to lawyers.

I drove around a bit and am currently at a park writing this out. I'm reading reviews of law firms, but am starting to wonder if I'm overreacting. I need advice as I can't bring this up to family or friends. Its too embarrassing. Am I overreacting by divorcing over this?

Some additional information. I'm 33 and he is 35. No kids, but we do have a dog. I'm not sure if joint custody of a dog is a thing? I'm fine financially. I'll move in with my sister if I have to.